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03-23-2006 09:09 PM
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Well, I know everyone on here has heard me tell about how my dad is legally blind. Well.... now he's 20/70 in his R eye!!!!!! He's got several more surgeries ahead of him, probably 3 or 4, but we are moving in a forward diection. He just told me that he can use the microwave again. He almost set the darn thing on fire a while back. He is able to tell what the food he eating is too, he wasn't able to figure out what packages were what and out of stubborn pride would not learn braile. I used textured tape and stuff. A lot of the things blind people might use was hard for him due to his hands and arms being the way they are. Now on to tell my ugly doctor office stuff. When we went to the eye doctor she said his R eye was hemoraging and both had huge cataracts (I am the queen of second opinions, and she was the THIRD opinion in 2 states) She couldn't tell if the L eye was hemoraging due to the huge cataract that no one besides her had even mentioned needing taken out. The doc wanted it done asap, and the scheduler started slamming down his chart(of course while the doc wasn't around) and said she would have to "dump" someone else off the schedule to make a spot for my dad. She said it wasn't fair, and I told her that his eye was actively hemoraging and if the doctor felt it needed to be done soon than it must be pretty important. I got the extreme feeling that we were not going to be having surgery any time soon, as she mentioned the month of may, and she asked for our cell numbers to tell us when she could fit him in. I went down the hall, found the doctor in her office, and let loose. I told her how grateful we were for all she was doing, but I couldn't believe how we were being treated. The supervisor made the witch come in and told her she was to apologize to us immediately, and she did. They offered me to take the complaint higher, but I refused. He had surgery within a week and a half. His next two are now scheduled for 4/5, 4/12. He has to have a viterectomy(sp) and laser stuff to stop the bleeding. That woman had me in tears, but I am so glad I took charge. My poor dad was just sitting there saying please, I would appreciate anything you can do to help me while she's throwing stuff and ranting. Anyway, it's over and she calls all the time about his appts and is nice as pie. Thanks for everyone's kind thoughts. I'll sleep peacefully tonight knowing my dad won't be trying to gargle with his cologne instead of mouthwash. My daddy can see, and God is so good. By the way, Dr Flores and Dr. Wood at Meyer eye clinic in Memphis TN are absolute angels. This is not the first time they have helped him with his vision when everyone else said there was nothing that could be done.

03-23-2006 09:13 PM
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That is awesome! I can not even imagine what it is like to not be able to see. How wonderful that someone was able to help him. Yes, God is good!
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03-23-2006 10:08 PM
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That's wonderful! I hope to hear more progress after his next operations. Good for you for standing up for him!
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03-23-2006 10:25 PM
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That is wonderful news! I totally understand! My husband has been battling eye problems for the past 2 1/2 yrs. His vision got so bad that he couldn't drive in January and was wondering if he was going to be able to continue to work! But, after eye surgery, pills, eye drops, and a pair of bifocals he can see again! And he is so excited about it! So I can really understand how great this is for you and your dad and how happy he must be right now!!!!
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03-23-2006 10:42 PM
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Wow, that is great news...and you are an amazing daughter for standing up for him. You go girl!!! Please keep us posted on his upcoming surgeries.
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03-23-2006 11:51 PM
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WOW!! What would your dad do without you in his life? That was really great to stand up to medical professional like that. My father is loosing his vision too but he is not blind yet. He is really nervous this year as he will turn 85 (sometimes I can't believe he is that old) in May and the DMV will make him do a eye exam. He is worried that he will lose his drivers licenses, thus his independence.
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03-24-2006 07:57 AM
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That's great news. I'll say some prayers that his next surgeries are successful and you father is able to see even better. Take care.
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03-24-2006 10:25 AM
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what good news Shea! so happy for your dad and you too. God always makes a way - glad he gave you courage to stand up at the dr. office. let us know how the upcoming surgeries go, aj
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03-24-2006 12:19 PM
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Oh Shea that such good news. I'll put him on our calendar so we can pray for him when he has surgery. Update when you can

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03-24-2006 01:00 PM
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That is wonderful and God DOES work in mysterious ways!!!

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03-24-2006 05:27 PM
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awesome news I glad your dad will be on the way to recovery here soon
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03-24-2006 09:06 PM
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Wow! I am so happy for you. I can totally relate. My mother has been blind for my entire life--she became legally blind in her thirties from a form of macular degeneration. All her siblings also had it. It just so amazing what can be done. That is such a blessing and it made my night so thanks for sharing.


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