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PostPosted: March 06 2016, 11:22 AM    Post subject:
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Dear everyone,

Let me intoriduce myself. I'm Daniel Tilli from Budapest,Hungary.

Im 29 years old and i have a Down sydrome little sister.

She's name is Zsófia (Sophia) and she is 13 years old. So i was an only child until i was 16 old. You can imagine the changes what Zsófia made in our life.
When we found out she has Down syndrome,obviosly we were very frightened and scared. I will be honest, Zsofia is my half sister,our mother is common. My father was divorced from her when he found out he pregnant from an other man.
Zsofia's biological father is dissappered when he found out my mother is expecting. Pretty typical stroy so far right? :/ My father took me with him so i lived with him, but fortunatly close to my mother and my little sister (we both live in Budapest).
So since there is no father fo Zsofia i try to take care of them.
Zsofia needs my mother in 24 hours. I cant describe how adorable and amazing gilrls is Zsofia. She wonderful very lovable little person.
But...she 13 years old, she will never be able to take care of herself. She only can walk with assistance, she needs to help with eating (but she getting a lot if improvment on that), she cant use the bathroom (cant sign when she "has needs",) she always have to wear diapers.
As you can figured out i guess my mother cant do any work with Zsofia.
He took her to the special school at 8 am and they only look after her untul 1pm. There is no job in hungary for women in this kind of situation...4 hour at best with a "sick" (as they say) child. no one is willing to hire her.
And what im going to write now is a big shame for us but....so here is goes.
We are in a very tough financial situation..my mother get some support from the Hungarian State but its about 50% of the living minimum. I work i try to help them as much is i cant, but my wage is very low to provied them thier needs. Togheter we can provide the food, but the housing cost is often not.
Of course you have every reason to doubt in me (maybe i would too if i would read something like that), and i cant give you anyting besides my word.
So heres the point. We need support...any amount of it. Every dollar (or here Hungarian forint) counts for is. If you are in a position to help of any level, i would be very very greatfull.
I want to be straight forward...our living needs is about 500 dollars/month..thats minimum we could make a normal level of living.
So, please as i said before every single dollar would a great help for us.

If you willing to do that for us heres my back account detalils:

Name: Daniel Tilli (you can contact me on facebook about everything if you like)
Bank name: K&H Bank:

Bank account number: HU15 1040 1110 8676 6569 7255 1007.

Swift code (if needed) OKHBHUHB

Thank you for you time, i know its a pretty strange asking,but i dont see a lot of choice. It was very hard to write this down, but I would do everything for my little sister well being.

Thank you again. (and sorry for my pretty bad english)


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PostPosted: March 06 2016, 11:31 AM    Post subject:
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If you have doubts in me or have any questions please dont hasitate to contanct me: [email protected]. Happy to answer all you questions
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