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03-13-2006 12:35 PM
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lilpayton  
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Location: Bristow, Virginia
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I am struggling with my daycare situation and am not sure where to put my kids. Mason has been in a daycare center since birth and thrives. I would like Payton to have a more one-on-one though, and it seems a home daycare would best suit her. I also am contemplating putting Mason in a home daycare to be with Payton. BUT I'M NOT SURE!! Please tell me your thoughts on the pros and cons for each (home vs. center) for infants and toddlers.
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03-13-2006 01:04 PM
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Location: Minneapolis area
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We have done both for our two older children. We started them both out in a home day care. When they turned two or two and a half we moved them to a center based daycare. We moved them because the in home care that we had was best for while they were little. The in home person we had really liked the babies a lot and were really great with them. When they become older they needed more chances for learning and more structure. Other in home people may have better structure and learning opportunities than our provider. I am sure that is not the norm. In fact my neighbor does day care and she focuses on the little older children (15 months and older) and she has a great program. The draw backs of in home care are that they can take time off and you will need to find back up care if they are gone for two weeks or more. This had happen to us three times in the four years we went to the same home. Our in-home care person took a long trip and was gone for about a month to see family that lives in Argentina. She gave us lots of notice but it was hard to find care for a short period of time and also caused my two children to have some adjustment problems both when they went to a new care place and when they our provider return from her trip. I would suggest watching the ratios of children vs. adults in any provider. Find out how the providers will feel to have a therapist come in to their home. I would suggest really checking out the in home provides background from the county in which they live and references.

Now that I have Anthony my plan was to open our own small daycare. I am interested in have one or two children with disabilities but the remaining children will be non disabled. I do not want more then six children in my care besides the two that will be home with me (Andrew and Anthony). My oldest will be in school and in the summer he will attend some activities in our area for part of the day. I know that I will be very busy and I have a lot to learn.

Keep me updated. I would love to hear what you decide to do for care. Remember stick with you gut feeling because it is more then likely the right decision.

Bonnie
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03-13-2006 01:17 PM
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Both my 2 are in a centre and have been since they were 3 months old.

The day care they attend has been great about therapists coming in and at encouraging Callum. I like the centre as he's with his own age group and they have a pretty structured day. I think the fact that he's been in a classroom based setting will really work to his advantage when he starts school (next month ). If you do choose a centre then find out what their rules are about moving up classes. A couple of centres that we've looked at would not allow kids to graduate from the baby room until they walked (that would have meant Callum at 27 months would have been in a room with 3-12 month olds) and some will not take kids over 3 unless they are potty trained.
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03-13-2006 01:33 PM
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Jaymes has been at a center day-care since he was 2 months old and his little sister will join him when she is 2 months old as well.

I love our current place. We work closely with the teachers. They are involved in all our IFSP meetings. The therapists are almost all based out of our center so they see him whenever they want and have done that for the last 3 years - it's been the best arrangement for us. They work with the teachers on what Jaymes needs and what the teachers can work with him on. For Jaymes, I think the best thing has been the role-models that the other kids provide. He wants to be with his friends. He wants to do what they do. In the end, I believe it's what really motivated him to walk and crawl and now run when he did. The center he is at takes "typical" kids (the majority of children) and special needs kids. Our teacher/kid ratio is a little bit lower than state mandate and what most day cares in the area have.

By the way, on that potty training thing that Naomi mentioned - our state regulations on day care say that any child over 3 that is not designated as special needs has to be potty trained before they can move up. If they are designated special needs, they do not have to be potty trained. Check with your local laws about that. I just wanted to mention that. Jaymes has transitioned with his classmates at the same time as them (walking or not, etc.) - that was at the request of his therapists as well.
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03-13-2006 05:32 PM
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My children started daycare at a group in-home daycare and when we moved 4 months ago they switched to a daycare center. We have seen that both kinds have their weak and strong points.

What we liked about the in-home daycare is that the boys got to be together all day and that they had the benefit of learning from older children, not just their peers. They developed a strong bond with their caregivers and the other children, because they didn't move from room to room based on age and all grew together. My oldest started when he was 9 months old and went to daycare with the same group of kids until he was 3. They didn't change staff that often or kids, so it was like he had more siblings to grow up with. I also liked that Sean was included in activities with the older ones: trips to the park, to the pool, to the library. He really flourished in that environment. They loved going there and rarely fussed about going.

When we moved, it was really hard to decide on a daycare since we didn't exactly know when we'd be here or what our hours would be. We found a really nice center and the flexibility of the program appealed to us. We only have to pay for the time they are there, unlike home-based daycare. They have a preschool program, so we don't have to go to 2 different places for the boys. The class size is fairly small and adequately staffed. I like that the caregivers are focused on the kids and don't have to do all the chores that home-providers have to do (make meals, clean up, etc.)

The boys adjusted fairly well to be seperated, it helps my older son feel like a big boy, going to "school". Sean is doing well with his peers. They did hold him in the infant room until he was 18 months old, because he isn't transistioning from baby food & bottles and still takes 2 naps a day most days. He moved into the young toddler room a week ago and is doing alright so far. They are really helping with the food situation and adjusting his sleep schedule. I'm glad he's in with kids his own age, even though he can't walk yet.

It's a tough call to make, really the decision is based on finding someone who can really give your child the attention she needs. Good luck with your search!
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03-14-2006 11:38 AM
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Abby has been in a daycare center since two months old and loves it along with them loving her. When we drop her off later in the am, due to therapy, all the children say "Abby". i think it is the best thing we have done for her. And, she was held a great deal in the infant room for she was so small, loved, and protected by the teachers.

Let me know if you have any other questions and I would be happy to help.
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03-14-2006 11:53 AM
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I think this is a great discussion. I am not quit sure what I think acutually. Both my girls are at a center but that is because I do not know of a local in-home center.

Some would say they want there kids with their own age but others might say that being with a range of ages is beneficial too (southernbelle explains this point well...i remember reading it before in a home-schooled thread).

I have not really decided yet, although 2 weeks and counting for me to be a SAHM. I am really looking forward to it! I do need to find activity for the girls though...I want them stimulated just like they were at daycare.

I think that both types are pretty equal, you personally need to make a list of pro's and con's and decide which pro's are more important...price might be a factor, teacher to child ratio..etc etc.

Good luck and keep us posted on your decision.

Another good person to answer here would be Danielsmommy (Lisa), she runs an at-home daycare.

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