Wow I have chills. Michael does this ALL THE TIME. There is a spot in my hall that he looks up and talks, hollars, laughs, waves his arms, you would think someone was there. Initially I thought maybe he was looking for my husband, our game room door comes up to the hall way, and that is the way my husband comes in from work. So I sort of thought he may just be be hollaring and waiting for dad. He sits in the same place in my living room, right in front of the love seat, so he's still in the room with us, but he sees directly into the hall. Its like we're not even there with him when he's doing this. You can barely get him to pay attention to you and if he does, he goes right back to babbling to the hall. So one night he was playing on the floor with my husband, got distracted by whatever this is, and went across the living room floor sat in his 'little spot' and went on and on! So then I knew he wasnt waiting for dad to come home. He watches the same spot on the ceiling while he does this. My husbands mom passed away when my husband was 18, Ive never met her, but often times I wonder if its her. And my husband reminded me that when Molly was a baby, and she was in her swing she would stare into the hall and smile the biggest smiles ever. I definitely think its an angel. It kind of brings me comfort just knowing that it is something pleasant, and obviously they are reaching out to my children, not haunting us terribly. My husband on the other hand gets very creeped out by it! I like to think that it is his mom staying involved with his life and his children that she didnt have the pleasure to meet in her first life.
It is interesting to know that you all have the same experiences!!!
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Stephanie
Mom to Molly 12/3/01
Michael 1/10/04
and baby #3 due July 14th!
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